From p. 89-90 of Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting:
Take your treasured dreams out of that crowded old closet, dust them off with loving care, and give each one a long, hard look. Forget that they're too far out. Fort that they're hopeless or too unthinkable. Forget that you might be called selfish. Forget those things! Wanting is not only your right, it is an absolute prerequisite for a happy life.

